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Tameeka’s Opinion On The Confederate Flag

I realize that I am about to get under people’s skin with this topic. Oh well so be it. Last night I was talking about my opinions on the confederate flag and Duke’s of Hazards. Growing up my mother allowed me to watch the Dukes of Hazards I loved the show and I still do that’s right I said it. The show wasn’t a racist show.We have got to do more research before we jump to hasty decisions that’s just in the way. We have to stop falling for all of the race baiting tactics because that’s all it is majority of the time. So no I’m not pressed about the Confederate Flag. Why should I be?

 

Father the Builder

Happy Father’s Day 2016, regardless of the date or whether it’s modern time the meaning of being a father never changes. Whether it’s teaching their children how to ride a bike, how to put on a tie or how a man treats a lady a father’s role makes a huge impact that effect the family as well as the community. A father is the backbone of the family he proves stability. A father molds his sons and daughters differently still his presence effect them tremendously. Single mothers it’s Father’s Day don’t take it away from the dads who deserves it by trying to share their day. It’s time for us to humble ourselves and understand our roles as mothers . Let’s stop behaving masculine and more feminine we are women. Give the men who are true fathers respect. We can only do it by allowing the father to do the role that God intended. It’s time to face what some us mothers can not do and that’s being a father. Could it be being the head of household has clouded your judgement well if it hasn’t it’s time to sit in the audience. Let’s give these fathers a round of an applause. It’s time to bring family back. We must love our children enough to allow them to have their fathers.

I have shared part of my life story before. Growing up for awhile it was a single parent home I didn’t not want to be a single parent. I remembered how hard my mother had it and for a long time I hated my father for it. Vowing to never to become a single parent.Sadly I became a single parent obviously God had other plans for my life. Yes I truly believe this there is a blessing in every storm. Look at the people’s lives in the Bible Joseph, Ruth, Esther and even Jesus. You don’t want to see me get pumped. I know that God is awesome and He always gets His glory in everything. We have to worry less and trust more. Worrying doesn’t solve not one thing. Just have to keep praying, trusting and hoping all of it will pay off one day.

As a single parent I understand that it requires a high demand but as a mother I want my sons to have the best. Are there fathers who are not doing what they should? Sure. But I have faith in God soon things will be all good. I believe truly that everything happens for a reason. There are no bad choices just learned lessons. Every lesson is a blessing in some way or another. Think about a thousand puzzle piece it isn’t complete if even one piece is missing. That goes for every lesson that has taken place in our lives. Or time we become wise and we understand why things are the way that they are. Until we do let’s allow the fathers to do the role that God intended for them to do.

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You

See the way that our love is setup

Cinderella and Sleepy Beauty

Have nothing on us

They desire our happily ever after

A new beginning of a new chapter

You got me to become brave

And turn the page on all

Of my past hurt and pains

You helped me to rearrange

My mindset about love now a days

I do everything that I can

To describe the way

That I feel about you

Once in awhile I get stomped

On what can I exactly say

The words I love you

Though powerful

At times seem so minuscule

So insufficient

So inadequate

How can I possibly

Show you my adoration

I love you truly

Please do not take my words lightly

I’ve waited what felt like

A lifetime

For God to send you to me

This isn’t make believe

Or fantasy

It’s reality

Therefore I value you

And would never entertain

The thoughts of letting you go

I want you to know

In my eyes your worth

It’s more than

Trillions or zillions

I would never throw

Something away that is priceless

This I truly mean

Together we are two hearts

Locked together in love

You are my one and only love

My one and only someone

I know all of this now

More than ever before

There have never been anyone

Else whom I adore

 

God’s Rainbow Put Sum Respeck On It

Well it’s the month of June and many of us know what’s celebrated this month….. Gay pride. Look far be it for me to judge I just don’t like the way God’s rainbow is being represented. The rainbow is God’s promise to Noah so we have to put some respect on it. I get so tired of God being disrespected people should be afraid to do that. I know that I am not perfect but my lack of perfection is not a green light to not respect God’s work  nobody should that’s right!! Yeah I said it! The world is becoming more and more scarier it seems like with each and every moment that passes by. I will not stop being passionate about my walk with Christ I pray that I don’t ever lose it. There is so much pressure but I refuse to cave God will have the final say. You just wait. He is Not Pleased regardless of what some people want to believe it doesn’t mean that they are right.

I don’t push my beliefs on no one therefore I want to be treated the same way. Respect my beliefs and I will respect yours, no I don’t accept it though. A lot of problems happen when people can’t just agree to disagree. No one has the right to shove anything down another person’s throat. I admit I get so amp when I think of the goodness of God I just want to shout about it from every rooftop. God is awesome. He has brought us all a mighty long ways so let’s respect Him to the highest in each and every way. Okay.

You Have To Fight

With every

Tear that you cry

There’s a reason

With every

Question there’s

There’s an answer

For every rough morning

For every sleepless night

For every painful experience

For every disappointment

God has a plan

To make things right

So hold on tight

And fight

All of your troubles

Will soon disappear

The purpose will be clear

You will see that

Everything was worth it

God has the best destined

Since your birth

Don’t allow worry

To trouble you

Turn it loose and put up your dukes

Fight

You have to fight

Hold on change for

The good is coming

Everything has an expiration date

And that includes bad things

Know that you are not alone

God sits high and looks low

Please know that He’s

Always on His throne

Everything and every person

Who has ever hurt you

God will send

Someone and something new

For every rainy day

There are sunny days

Plus a rainbow

So hold on

With all of your might

Your blessings will soon

Be in within your sight

Know that you deserve

What God has in store

But you have to fight

Don’t give in to sadness

Or stress

Get ready to be blessed

Don’t give up

 

Am I Ladylike?

Femininity- the quality of being female; womanliness

The other day I watched a video of Christelyn on black women and femininity after watching it I went to the mirror looked for a very long time. So many thoughts came over me like a huge typhoon. Am I ladylike with my background it’s a question that begs for an answer. My sister that’s second to me always behaved kind of tomboyish, she and I spoke on the phone pertaining to the subject. Yes talking on the phone with me can get so deep. Anyway she was telling me that regardless in her opinion she’s a woman that’s tough like a man who can be a lady.Hmmmmmm. Indeed it requires a woman to be tough especially being a single mother of boys. Like how does one balance the two?

I love my wigs, dresses, nail polish, earrings and toe rings to name a few. I feel like a woman of course femininity goes a lot deeper it’s attitude and it’s softness. It’s impossible to be soft when your life requires you to be the opposite. I am a single parent of two boys maybe I should get me some tea cups and have a tea party!! LMBO!! I love my sister’s attitude when I spoke to her I mean it’s a great outlook for her life her modo is she’s a woman that acts tomboyish at times it’s who she is and she’s fine with it. For me I want that softness and I do I just can’t be that way all the time. Perhaps I will find a way to be more dainty but I don’t want my sons copying me. My sons are boys definitely and they are teens therefore they know better. So yeah I’ll spend more time being softer. I know that I am a woman but I love being a lady. A black intelligent lady and I am very proud of who I am.

Dynamite

Kaboom!!!

Something electrifying

Takes place between us two

Absolutely explosive

Simply massive

And I love it

When the words

Power couple or team us

Is spoken

Finances becomes the mindset

It just doesn’t make sense

When in fact a Rotex

Can not touch something

That’s priceless

Of a love that’s truly meant

It’ s far more valuable than the

Richest couple’s financial status

Nothing can compare to what we have

Yeah I brag I can’t help it

I am who I am

You are who you are

There’s only one of you

There’s only one of me

Even though we are different

We have much in common

What a wonderful connection

Praying to God that what we have

Remains I do this every single night

Always thinking of ways to stay

Empowered and keeping things in sight

I’m going to fight

With all of my might

For us to always unite

Everything has to stay right

After all not just any two people

Can come together and make dynamite