Regardless of what society says nothing has changed but time. God’s way still and does work. I want to do things His way that way I know that I will be okay.
It’s almost the one year anniversary of the biggest mistake I never made. Around this time last year, I had a bottle of cheap wine in one hand and a bottle of sleeping pills in the other. My go-to coping cocktail. Why?
Because 2015 was the worst year of my life. I systematically lost everything I valued until there was nothing left for me to cling to.
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Goooooooooooood Morning to all!! I got my cup of coffee ready!! Yum Yum Yummy!! My Dallas Cowboys was on a bye this week. That really sucked for me on the bright side the Walking Dead made it’s return. There’s a lot of mixed reviews and emotions about it. I made a podcast about it. The show called the Day Will Come was a very emotional episode. I’m not just a Daryl Dixon fan but a Norman Reedus fan. He’s a brilliant actor and person. The so much more to come from the Walking Dead hang in there I know that I am!!!
Celibacy is a very hot topic different people have different opinions on the subject. In my opinion it’s best to wait because we are worth the wait. If a man or woman can’t not wait it’s best to let them go they are not worth your time. I will repeat these words several times in order to drive it home. Besides a person who loves you truly will respect you and your wishes.
Ladies there are men out there who are celibate to think that we are alone in the waiting game is not being realistic. With sexually transmitted diseases being at an all time high it’s clear that God’s way is the best way. When we wait it gives us a chance to know for sure if a person is right for us. I don’t know about you but I rather be heartbroken with my standards in tact. Love making was invented by God as a way for a husband and wife to bond. Souls are being connected you are special therefore you should not be getting connected to just anyone. Anyone who can laid down with anybody without any thought is a dangerous soul to get with anyway.
Premarital sex has so much confusion and remember God is not of confusion. If you come across a person who says that they can’t wait be like oh you can’t wait to get married? Because I am not having sex until I am married. Stand your ground it’s your body. Making a person wait is your choice and it’s also the person’s choice to accept it if they can’t then they can leave. Think about it you’re good enough to sleep with but not to marry? Look God said that He will give us the desires of our hearts if a person don’t feel that you are worthy let them go. Intimacy is one of the most precious gifts that you can give a person don’t allow them to devalue it it’s priceless. Don’t allow a person to treat you like your pawn shop worthy when you are Tiffany jeweler worthy if your price is too high tell them “bye”. Comprises happens during the marriage not when you are in the process of receiving what God has for you. God has the absolute best so don’t settle for less. Treat that person like when you get into a car accident you go to a lawyer and not settle. That’s what we must do allow God to handle all of our business.
A true man or woman of God will do things God’s way because they respect it and they want to do what’s right. A person who loves you will not pressure you to go against God’s way. Let’s be honest when was there a time when God’s way did not work? I can’t tell you the number of times when I was happy doing God’s will. Being celibate is hard I think it helps having people in your circle who is celibate too. Another suggestion is when you go out on a date make sure that it’s in public don’t put yourself into a position for an opportunity to present itself. Date a person that’s on the same page as you and that will help to reduce having a slip up. Most importantly keep these five words in mind you are worth the wait.
1 Corinthians 6:18-20
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
I’m a very positive person still you have to speak truth. Sometimes when you speak truth some people don’t want to receive it that’s fine come back to my blog when you are ready to. I write about things that are thought about and on this post I want to discuss cuffing season.
Now I know what you are thinking what is Tameeka talking about now??!!! Well I’ll tell you cuffing season is when people try to cuff others and it’s Not out of love so don’t confuse the two. If a person hasn’t contacted you springtime nor summer but want to now you should wondering why. Sometimes when others are treating us wrong we think that it’s a reflection of ourselves but it isn’t it’s quite the opposite. We still have to be honest to keep us from enduring unnecessary pain. Just because a person is with you physically doesn’t mean that they are mentally remember home is where the heart is. Who needs a dude texting another woman while you are sleeping and some woman may want to fool herself if a man is doing sneaky things like that it’s not love believe me when I tell you.
I understand that sometimes we get lonely it’s human but we don’t want to allow a season to mess us up for a lifetime. God will send the right one but it can’t happen if you are with the wrong one. Any person cuffing you during cuffing season is the wrong one. Trust God. In our times of weakness it’s best to pray.