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No You No Me

Like a line dance

We step together

Your love is like no other

Higher than the highest

Amount of the lottery

Infinite like space

You are my compass

Without You I am lost

In You I place my full trust

Even though I can’t see You

I know that You are here

Doing everything that You

Can to show that You care

It’s so rewarding

For You I live and breathe

I am willing to do anything

You are all that I need

Without You I am nothing

No You No me

You are my everything

You are life

I pray to You

Nobody can love me

Like You do

Long to have the

Best relationship with You

You have brought me from

A long ways I am thankful

To You Father God always

All I want to do

Is spend my life

Showing You how special

That You are

The best part of my life

My mission from this day forward

Will always be

To have You see

Have You Believe

That if there is no You

There is no me

What About Your Soul?

Time for a pep talk it will perk up your day like a strong cup of coffee. Yummy! Indeed while we are here we are to make the most of things. Have a great career, children, big house, being healthy and happy. There is nothing more important then knowing where is your soul going to go simple because while we are what we feel are most important won’t matter once we are gone.

So how are your eyes? Do you see the best in people? When was the last time you read the Bible? How is your hearing? Are you listening to people truly?How is your water intake? How much living water are you drinking? How is your heart? Do you feel compassion for others? How is your mind? Do you think of ways to encourage people? How are you hands? How often you put them together to pray? How is your diet? When was the last time that you fasted?  Most importantly how is your relationship with God have you ask Him to work on everything about you so you can be ready once He return. He is coming back.

A Noose Around A Brother’s Neck

Yes child support is for children of every race this is understood. I am writing this pertaining to a video.So there’s a guy whose video that I came across on YouTube claiming that child support is a noose around a black man’s neck. The guy who made the video claimed that it was a way to keep a black man down. Let me start off by saying two things one is that the guy is biased against women and two as long as I watch YouTube I will not run out of things to write about. Feeling the way that I felt I still watched the video in it’s entirety and it interested me so much that I had to blog about. Just couldn’t pass up this topic it is a hot one. 

There are so many stories that I have pertaining to mothers, fathers and child support. The situation has plenty of blame to go around. It’s ashame that the government has to get involved to make a parent do right. Yes there are some women who pay child support however it’s mostly men. It makes me upset when people starts to point fingers just do what you are suppose to do as a parent. When you get involved with a person think are they a person that you can see yourself marrying or having children with them? If the answer is no then don’t risk the chance of being tied to that person with a lifetime commitment.  Are there some spiteful money hungry women who use the money on other things besides their children? Yes but you saw the signs there are always signs you just choose to ignore the red flags. Am I saying that a person deserves to be stressed out forever with drama? No but don’t take a chance and gamble. When a person shows you who they are believe them.

Indeed there is a time to be private and there’s a time to help with your story. Imagine if no one shared their testimonies and stories it’s important to encourage as many people as we can. It may help someone out and that’s an awesome thing. As I have shared I am a single parent of two sons and I am doing as best as I can WITHOUT child support. My children’s father was in prison for basically ten years and I did NOT put him on child support. Even while a person is in prison they can be placed on child support I choose to opt out of that choice. My ex has been out since November and has Not seen his children after ten years. Does it make me upset how he treats our children? Yes of course however I place things into God’s hands He will handle things. I’m Not spiteful here’s why I have Not sought child support the agent would throw him back into jail and that doesn’t do either one of us any good. I’m giving him time to get on his feet and an opportunity to do what he can however I have a time limit trust me.

Let’s look at things like this why would a person try to hurt another? Perhaps there are still feelings there I do Not have feelings for my ex it’s about our children. Our children have been through enough and do Not deserve any additional heartache. If you love your children make it about your children Not about your ex. The children did not ask to come here. Some of you mothers quit trying to hurt the father by digging into his pockets in the hopes that no woman will want him because we all know that it won’t happen. Fathers child support is not worth more than time spent with your children. Call your children more often, visit them, and yes you can date as well as move on however take your children with you. Our ex is our past but our children are a lifetime commitment honor it  and don’t ever forget that. Put your grownup pants on and co-parent properly.

The Green Eyed Monster

Exodus 20:17 Thou shalt covet thy neighbour’s house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour’s wife, nor his manservant, nor maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour’s . I just wanted to clarify not that it matters what people think, only what God thinks is what’s important.

There is a poem on my blog called My Love in it I express that I have jealousy for a man who I care about. In my opinion a little jealousy is healthy if not then pray for me, please. To me it’s healthy I don’t have jealousy to the point that it becomes an obsession. I won’t go all Lizzy Borden on a guy but I have a fear of losing a man that I care about.

Quite frankly I feel that too often people hold back and that doesn’t help the relationship falling in love requires being vulnerable and the chances of getting hurt as well. Besides feeling jealousy about a man that I cared about is different I have no jealousy towards or about others. I only want what God has for me which is the best and He will bless us all. There is absolutely no reason to be envious of what another person has I mean come on it’s like driving a car and looking all into someone else’s or expecting to get full from someone else’s plate.

Every human being has their own race to run  we’ll never reach the finish line trying to run a race that is not our own. I refuse to miss out on the blessings that God has for me because I am worried about someone else’s. One thing about God He is a show off God when He stunts He stunts hard. God goes hard in the paint when He bless us not with sprinkles either but a shower!!!!! Therefore I wait on the man of the hour and that God Almighty He’s got me!!!!! God’s has all of our backs.

Right or Wrong

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The Christian Police

Have you ever heard of the fashion police? You know the people who grades people for what they wear and ticket them.Well that’s how I feel about some of the Super Christians who goes around behaving like the police. They ticket everyone else’s moves except their own. Yeah I said it! I’m never surprised when a secret of theirs is exposed. Look I know that I fall short we all do. Stop worrying about the people who are in the church, has a relationship with God and share their faults pray for them. These people are on their way to heaven God will help them to get there. Worry about the people who are on their way to hell they are the ones who needs the most help.

One of my Facebook friends had a hurtful post she wrote that some of the cruelest Not coolest are some of the people who calls themselves Christians. We have to do better. Souls are being lost and I don’t want to be the reason why someone goes to hell ever. It’s never okay for even one soul to be lost forever. That’s why I stay passionate about my walk with God and compassionate about others. I want everyone to make it to Heaven for us all to walk the streets of gold. I want to hear well done my faithful servant no others words hold so much meaning to me than those from God almighty. Oh what a blessing it would be.

They Do Not Expire

Milk has an expiration date, bread has an expiration  date even tough times has a expiration date. One thing that does not expire is a testimony. Every time we talk about a testimony it gives God praise. So we should tell it to as many people as we can anyone who will listen while we are breathing. Treat a testimony like a diamond should it off. That’s what I do and you should too. Testimonies encourages people so repeat it over and over like a scratched LP someone needs to hear it. Don’t worry about people who may be tired of hearing it let they can get some ear plugs or cotton balls. As a matter of fact they can not listen, hey problem solved.  Our blessings comes from God and not man. Don’t get me wrong I don’t praise Him for the blessings. I will praise Him regardless of what I get. Give God His praise and don’t be ashamed do it all day if you want to. We should never hold back not with all that God has done.

Psalm 150:6

Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.

Missing You

Some days are harder than others

Mother’s day, birthdays and holidays

There’s a huge hole in my heart

That nothing can repair

I wish I could see you

Face to face

To let you know

How much that I care

Mom I miss you

And I love you

In though you passed in 1997

It still feels like it was yesterday

I guess it’s best to feel

This way that way

You memories will never fade

And I care carry you

In my heart always