Yes, the number one reason why not to lie is because it’s a sin. Still there are other reasons to like why do it, it makes no sense to do it, it’s not worth it, and it ruins one’s credibility. It may seem silly to write this post but it really isn’t. There are a lot of people who lie apparently they didn’t pay attention to the fable The Boy Who Cried Wolf. Now I’m not saying when someone ask your opinion to be rude. Many times it’s not what’s said but how. There is no such thing as a little white lie, tell a little lie and one has to tell a bigger lie to cover it up. Lies are never worth telling whether you are a believer or not.
God
My Love
How can something
That seems so simple
Become so difficult
I love you
And I know this much
Can’t stop thinking about you
Can’t stop wondering about you
Can’t sleep
Constantly staying awake
Like I have drank gallons of coffee
You mean so much me
I don’t care about being vulnerable
Or who knows
You are my love
And I love you so
You just don’t know
What this is doing to me
It’s a good feeling
But it also gets me in touch
With other feelings
That aren’t me usually
Like jealousy
I can’t stand the thought
That someone could replace me
So when it comes to you
Even my self confidence
Is threaten
Not going to sit here
And act like I ain’t sweating you
Cause that isn’t true
When you love someone
That’s what you do
I stay loyal
Faithful and true
There is nothing
That I won’t do for you
I know that this has
To be real what I feel
Because I have no fear
Of telling you
Or telling every man, woman, boy, girl
At the same time fear losing you
You are a huge part of my world
You’re my vanilla
I’m your chocolate
Loving this swirl
Let’s close our eyes
And give this thing a whirl
You are the only one
I’ve wanted for a very long time
I have been praying to God above
For Him to give me you
My love
Homelessness
People have a misconception about homelessness it could happen to anyone. That’s right no one is exempt. There are people who are living from paycheck to paycheck all it takes is a loss of theirjob. There are various reasons that people become homeless and it’s not always drug related sometimes it’s from domestic violence, mental illness etc. There’s a lady who I follow on YouTube Tonya TKO she moved across the country and is now living from out of her car. She finally broke down and ask people for help I know that it took a lot of her pride to do that. She has many people who don’t believe that she is really homeless it has alot to do with what many thing that homelessness looks like.
There are whole entire families that are homeless with nowhere to turn or no one to turn to.Every life has a story so it’s important to not jump the gun.I remembered on my walks in the morning I would see a homeless man sleeping on the bench wrapped up. Sometimes I would give him money no he’s not a lazy person he was once in the military so he’s a veteran. It’s easier to assume the worst about people to keep from feeling sorry for them that way their warped minds can help their hearts to become hard like stone. Let’s say a prayer for the homeless and the people who are not far from it.
The Perfect Fit
There are so many books
On how to find love
Well I am thankful to God
That I have not read none of them
Waiting on God is what I have done
In my mind I truly believe that
There’s someone for everyone
The journey with us
Has only just begun
You and I have so much fun
We both love the same music
Movies and TV shows
Have life experiences that has
Helped one another to grow
Aren’t afraid to be goofy
So God has to be
A part of this
I could not have
Found a better love
Even if I were to dream it
We are a perfect fit
Like an echo of finesse
Our love is a true
Product of happiness
It’s so strong
My heart with yours
Is where it belongs
Being with you is wonderful
I could never go wrong
Some people search for a lifetime
To find a love like ours
Like a lovely flower
I never want to stop
Seeing you as being beautiful
You make living so meaningful
I have you
And I won’t let go
I love you so
God has given me a kiss
And a big hug from heaven
When He sent you to me
You are such a blessing
We are truly meant
You and I
Are the perfect fit
I Can’t Go A Day Without Reading The Bible
Regardless of what people say about the Bible I refuse to not read it everyday. The way that the Bible has impacted my life I simply can’t find the words to explain. I cannot speak for everyone else but I can for myself. There are points of my life that became out of control when I stopped opening the Bible and not having a relationship with God. I went about things my way and off of emotions thus my life experienced a downward spiral. There is no shame when I share various events in my life I have to support the reason why I feel as I do. So very proud of my testimonies and I pray that they are able to help somebody just one person is a whole lot.
As I have shared about my failed marriage sadly God wasn’t in it and how I went about having my children. If I had a relationship with God and read the Bible at that time I would have went about things differently. Still everything happens for a reason it took me to mess up to see what I needed to do. I don’t want to go a day ever without God. He has brought me through so many times bad ones that became good ones. It’s so much more than the good things that God has done or what He continues to do it’s about what I have learned as well. I’m not ashamed to say that I need Him because I do everyday that I live.
Just Want To Thank You
God I don’t want to complain
Or pray for something
To gain
I only want these words to remain
I just want to thank You
For everything that You do
For allowing me to see
The gift of a new day
Blessing me to be
The best person that I can be
The person that I am destined to be
Someone who is passionate
And ready to walk
Down the path that you direct for me
For having the knowledge
As well as the confidence
In a strong faith
For the many tests
That You helped me to pass
Which became testimonies
Thank You for what you do daily
For making my burdens light
And a future that is bright
A family that unites in times of trouble
Like Job You have blessed me double
I know with You I won’t stumble
You give me courage to keep me stable
To look at trouble not in fear
But as having an expiration date
If I had a million tongues
It still wouldn’t be enough
So I ask You to look into my heart
And to hear my praise
Hallelujah
Because You are worthy
God I just want to thank You
Blunt Talk
Are the number of your past partners small enough for you all to be able to fit into your bed? There some people who actually needs additional beds and maybe rooms too sad but true. Blunt talk right now not judging still our souls should not be allowed to connect to everyone. We are better than cheap WiFi have it so a person needs the right password to connect to our soul.
Growing up I always looked up to my mother her faith was strong and she carried herself as a lady. My mother had only four partners during her whole entire life and I always told myself that if my mother can operate with self control so can I. I remain a virgin until I was a little over 21 years old my first love came along who was white and so I gave in to having sex. I don’t regret giving up my virginity to my first love just wish that it was gone about differently. The first time is a beautiful thing remember though there are no do over once you do it it’s done.
One would be surprised but there are many people who are sustaining from sex. Many rather wait then taking the chance and having sex outside of marriage. On Facebook I have various ladies who ask me for tips on staying strong and not giving in to their desires. It isn’t an easy thing to do seems like once one makes this choice all of a sudden people want to ask you out.
Abstaining from sex is one of the best choices that I made. I have been celibate for six years and I am very proud of it too.
A person being celibate is something to be proud of and not ashamed of. There is so much garbage out here making young people feel like sleeping around is okay. Sleeping around is not okay it’s okay to not sleep with anyone of the opposite sex that comes your way. We all should value ourselves and not allow anyone to make us think that we are less than the way that God sees us. If we allow people to dictate to us our worth we will be cut short every time most people are competitive and don’t want anyone to get passed them or even have the same things. Remember God wants and has the best for us all we have to do is trust Him. Everything that happens in our lives are meant good or bad it’s all about timing. Yes even bad things are meant for good so wait on God He has many awesome things in store and that includes the right partner. Don’t give up on what God has for by allowing loneliness to rush you. Just because one is alone doesn’t not mean that they are lonely.
Here are a few tips that can help you to stay celibate:
1. When going out with a person for a date meet in a public never be alone this gives one opportunity to mess up.
2. When you feel weak pray. Pray when it’s hardest to pray. And it does work.
3. Talk to other people who are celibate many times when we hear positive testimonies it inspires us to want to do the same.
Don’t cut yourself off from the world you can do it stay strong. You Got This!!
Bitter or Better
There have been three words that have been on my mind and they are bitter or better. There’s no one who has not encountered hardship. How do we allow it to affect us? When it comes to a horrible past it’s best to have a bad memory. Unless we are speaking of a testimony of course if we are still bitter we aren’t healed therefore we are hurt which won’t make us better. A hurting person must be careful because not meaning to could hurt someone else with their words or actions. It’s important to make our mark when we go out into the world and that our presence makes a positive impact. As I always say I’m not a preacher or teacher. I’m Tameeka. Sometimes moving on from a situation where a person hurt us and never apologized may mean we have to face that they may never will. We should not allow any pain of negative experiences rob us of our joy. There is so much life to live so live it we owe it to ourselves.
I Love My Family
Through all the ups and downs I love my family!
Gossip and Christianity
Whether it’s on the phone, in person, text messaging or Facebook as Christians we know better about gossiping. It needs to stop it isn’t my opinion I have scriptures to support what I am saying. Tame Your Tongue. Proverbs 16:28 A forward man soweth strife: and a whisperer separateth chief friends. Proverbs 20:19 He that goeth about [as] a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.
Be Lifted 