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Are Christians Allowed To Have Fun?

The biggest question isn’t whether God exist or not as Christians we know the answer to that. It’s are Christians allowed to have any fun? Once we make the decision to follow Christ the things that we once did that we weren’t suppose to do we stop doing mostly. Some of things that we did are things that we still struggle with to quit doing after all we are still human. Sometimes God takes away what we struggle with right away and some lead up to being a testimony. I still listen to secular music and watch the Walking Dead praying that I stop doing them both soon really ain’t trying to go to Hell. That’s the reason why outsiders are afraid of coming to our faith they feel that their lives will be boring. What they fail to realize there’s never a dull moment when you have the Most High in your life. He gives kisses from Heaven 24/7.

Well take a look around at all the things that God created for our enjoyment mountains to climb, blue skies, butterflies, beautiful oceans, starry nights and cool breezes. There are so many things I know that God intended for us to live wonderful lives. It’s some of the man made things that gets us in trouble. Or the things that God made man placed added touches on it example secular music. Along with other things and we know what they are no need to go over all of them.Perhaps the way to stay focused is forgetting about the things that we don’t do any longer and remember the reason why we should. If we keep this in mind we won’t feel like we are missing out on something. Doing the right thing isn’t boring it keep us healthy mentally and physically. The mind is a battlefield we can win being focused on what God told us it’s meant to help not hurt unlike the things of the world. If it takes having the heart of SpongeBob square pants let’s do that. God says when two or three are gathered together in a His name, there He will be in the midst. Christians can have fun too which is the best way when the holy ghost gets involved watch out now. Ain’t no party like a Holy ghost party because a Holy ghost party don’t stop. So have fun and enjoy life with God as our host.

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Just Be Happy

A young lady that I have been knowing every since she was a teenager got married yesterday. I was happy for her she came from a long way. She truly deserves all the happiness that her heart can hold. The wedding brought up some things that was still inside of me.They were things that were apparently lying dormant. I struck out with my first marriage my plan when I got married was to be married for life. Unfortunately it didn’t turn out that way and guess what it’s okay. We live and learn. I’m glad that I learned it would have been horrible to not gain anything at all from the experience. She’s an awesome person truly. It was amazing seeing her as a bride I still keep seeing her as a teenager. What a gorgeous bride that she was. Simply beautiful.

If I could give her some advice about ways to keeping her marriage solid. The number one thing I would tell her would be to keep God first. Also keeping the line communication open all the time never make your husband feel like he cannot talk to you. That out of everyone that’s in his life the wife is the one he should feel comfortable with the must. Never allow outsiders to interfere within your marriage there’s nothing that cannot  be worked out just have to have the want to. To make everyday feel like your wedding day.  The list could go on forever mainly work on your marriage daily because it’s a team effort. Never give up on the one who you truly love. Always make your hubby feel like a king because that’s what queens do. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. Enjoy the destiny that you two will have together. Just Be Happy.

Men Have Feelings Too

One thing that I am instilled

Into my sons minds early

It’s healthy to say how you feel

Whether it’s sad,mad,or glad

It’s doesn’t make a man less than

A man because he’s in touch

With his feelings

Keeping feelings bottled up

Is not good at all

Women and men are both human

We require the same things to live

Food, water, air, love etc

The problem is when men

Were boys they were taught

That their feels were to be surpressed

They’re told all during their boyhood

Not to cry but to be a man

But once we are women

We expect them to express

What they can’t

It makes no sense

It’s not the right way

If a man feels some type of

Way then he should say it.

Without any delay

We speak of maturity

And the way that men act

When in fact we helped to

Contribute to that

Men being numb and cold

Yet we want them to step into

The loving nuturing husband role

Allow boys to express their feelings

Early and what amazing

Men they will grow to be

The mentality of men

Who show emotions are wimps

Logic must be ripped away

Christ even weap if He can

Do it so can everyone else

We all need to get a clue

And admit the truth

Men have feelings too

 

 

 

 

The Power Of Two

The power of two

It all began

With one woman and one man

Very best friends

Who became wife and husband

A perfect union

Two winners of one team

The power of two

The beginning of a great book

Begins with two sentences

That’s part of the first paragraph

To the journey of a new path

Consisting of late night laughs

Beach walks

Endless hours of long talks

Treasuring one another thoughts

King James Bible taught churches

Memorable memories

Being made everyday

That you will never want to forget

Always thanking God that you met

The power of two

The Bible says

When two or more are gathered

There He will be in the mist of them

Two power of two

Two colors mixed together

Becomes another

What therefore God hath

Joined together

Let no man put asunder

 

 

Hey It’s Okay To Be Straight

I’m going to cover everything on my blog and that includes things that other people maybe scared to talk about. Many people are scared to talked about certain things because they fear the backlash that comes. I’m not. God says to Fear Not! I don’t hate gay people however I love being straight.

Happy Sibling Day

Do you ever sit back and think about God’s work? I do. His work is truly amazing. Think about it we can choose our friends but we can’t choose our family. The same way He took His time making us He picked the family that’s perfect for us. I get so happy when I  think about His love for us. He surrounded us with the family that He wanted us to have. He made it so. Family has a special bond through it all.

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Yes! I love my sisters no matter what.

Myths About Black Women

It upsets me having to make a post about this situation at this point in time. The disrespect that black women receive is so ridiculous. The myths pertaining to us are unbelievable that we have kids by several men, that we are uneducated, that we are lazy, the list just goes on. When a black woman decides to date outside of her race the stereotypes are even worse.  First off I don’t fit into the cliche’that’s placed on women who date outside of their race. I grew up in a mostly black neighborhood, had a mixture race of friends, mostly black schools etc. I don’t watch Empire or Scandal. I am just attracted to white men and that’s just how it is. I’ve spoken about this before there’s a lady that I follow on YouTube and she talks about interracial dating. She gets a lot of flack because she’s promoting love. So what’s wrong with that?  When I  find my potential white mate I’m going to broadcast it too. That’s what people do when they are in love.

I’m for the human race and yes I am very concerned about the black community. Being a black woman I am apart of the black community so how could I not be concerned. It’s quite laughable how many speak of racism and don’t  want to address the hate that’s going on in the community against black women. The lack of respect is astonishing.  Where did it all come from?  And why? In my opinion I believe that a lot of pain starts at home. Broken homes where mainly single mothers are the head of the household with fathers who aren’t in their children’s lives. Broken children who grew up into angry adults that’s hurting the community. Hurt people hurt others. Hurt people justify their hurt by hurting others. The saddest people are the ones who validate trying to destroy a person by blaming the person who they are trying to destroy. The hate that a lot of black men have for black women is so overwhelming that it demolishes all the positive things that’s going on. This needs to stop we have to do better. At the end of the day we are hurting ourselves as a community. Think about it we must break the chain. Who will be brave enough to not point fingers but do their part?

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Inheritance

Before we were even born

God already had our

Lives designed

True history

So we have to decide

Are we going to hold on to

What people say or think of us

Or what God has for us

We can’t hold on to both

People views are always

Changing it’s just too much

To try to keep up

It requires too much focus

People’s opinions holds no value

Why stress behind words

Which are more than

Likely inaccurate

If we have people who constantly

Talk about our past then

That’s where they belong

So blast to the present

And prepare for the future

Don’t need people on our team

Who keeps a tally our faults

But when it comes to them

The pen doesn’t work

What was one of the lessons

That was taught in school

Pertaining to records of history

Recounted by people

It was Leif Erikson

Who was the first European

That discovered America

And not Christopher Columbus

We had the past all wrong

So on that note allow

Positive words to keep us strong

If our name is not rightfully

On it than we don’t own it

Do not I repeat

Do not inherit negativity

It’s not meant let’s

Lift our heads up high

And smile we owe

It to ourselves

Focusing on the wrong things

Will cause us to miss out

On our blessings

Remember God has many

Wonderful things in store

Which are the best

Get ready

Step into your inheritance