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Playing Detective

The other day I convicted myself I wondered what it is about me that I instantly turn into a detective. Why I just can not accept things at face value? I guess with everything that I have been through I simply can not help it. Especially when it comes to opening myself up to love again. I don’t want to risk my heart being broken or looking like a fool.

Not trying to make myself seem so special but I always come across people who try to make it their mission to prove who I am really, I’m liked” Really Bro how would you know me better than I know myself?” One thing about me I am very kind hearted and so that makes me an easy target.  People tend to take my kindness for weakness. I know that I am God’s creation therefore I am under His protection. No matter what happens I won’t change who I am because of people.

I will admit that I have trust issues at one point in life I didn’t want to. Admitting to having trust issues sparks characteristics within a person that they never knew existed. Let me explain further I do not believe it’s okay to go through a person’s things, have passwords etc if a person needs to do all of that then perhaps it’s best to end the relationship. My trust issues are with my heart and words whether a man is being genuine or not.

The one only that I have learned noone can convince a person not to hurt you if they want to justify why it’s okay to do so. Just pray that they are exposed for what and who they are to avoid unnecessary heartbreak.

A person who won’t be alone to heal is selfish Yeah I said it. It’s not cool to use a person to help you get over pain that’s not okay. For me I am willing to be alone as long as God sees fit I WOULD NEVER inflict any pain on someone else. God doesn’t like ugly and He does make people pay for their messed up way. No I am not trying to speak negativity on people still one can not treat a person wrong expect not to be punished for their behavior.

My hopes are for us all to find love with the right one and as far as for me playing detective I never will stop doing it. Nothing is going overboard when it comes to heartbreak I rather be alone. I know that God has my Boaz even if it takes a couple more years of waiting I will. Because I know that once my Boaz arrive I will never have to play detective again. All of my Boaz words will match I won’t have an uneasy feeling about him. He will do everything not to break my heart. I won’t make him feel uncomfortable because of doubt. Let’s face it a seed of doubt has the power to grow into the biggest oak tree.

Determined to not allow doubt to rob me of my Boaz or loneliness for that matter. Being lonely is the reason for a lot of bad relationships people aren’t patient enough to wait on God. Word to the wise you can’t be with the right one if you are with the wrong one. Mr. Or Mrs. Right now will ruin who you are truly destined to be with. The right one will not interrupt what you have no one can see if you are unhappy they just know that you are unavailable. I don’t know about anyone else I know that we are worth the wait.

 

 

What About Your Soul?

Time for a pep talk it will perk up your day like a strong cup of coffee. Yummy! Indeed while we are here we are to make the most of things. Have a great career, children, big house, being healthy and happy. There is nothing more important then knowing where is your soul going to go simple because while we are what we feel are most important won’t matter once we are gone.

So how are your eyes? Do you see the best in people? When was the last time you read the Bible? How is your hearing? Are you listening to people truly?How is your water intake? How much living water are you drinking? How is your heart? Do you feel compassion for others? How is your mind? Do you think of ways to encourage people? How are you hands? How often you put them together to pray? How is your diet? When was the last time that you fasted?  Most importantly how is your relationship with God have you ask Him to work on everything about you so you can be ready once He return. He is coming back.

Never Give Up

I don’t care how things look like don’t give up. If God instilled into you something that you are passionate about keep going. There is all apart of a plan. Take small steps you will get your dream and complete your goal. Do not get intimidated by a people who are into the same thing that you are doing because they have been at it longer.  They once only had one fan, one customer and first day of their goal then it grew. Keep in mind two things one we are all unique and so are our ideas. Two every dream whether it’s a small business, large business, YouTube vlogger, blogger, musician etc everyone started off the same way with a dream. You will never know what will happen if you stop going.

Personalized

God is number one always. I love Christ. My goal is to make Be Lifted very personalized I want it to scream of my personality. How I’m  a Christian, love being a mother, love music, love the Dallas Cowboys on and on.I  want this blog to be warm and inviting. Always keeping things exciting. Praying that God continues to use me. Constantly finding myself rhyming about everything what a joy this brings. My motto is to allow your soul to be lifted high on positivity only.

Slogan!!!!! Welcome to be lifted where the motto is to allow your soul to be lifted high on positivity. Hmmmmmm I think this will work. Stay tuned.

Don’t Get Caught Up

Growing up I had a dream of becoming a writer, DJ on the radio or a VJ on MTV. I love music I can not express it enough so my choices should not be a surprise. Well the VJ on MTV will never happen because they don’t play videos like they used to years ago. Then again who knows what God has down the line I’ll find out in time. As long as I live as long as we live anything I do mean anything is possible. One of the great things about technology and the internet it allows you to do things like blogging. So now I am doing a little of something that I enjoy and that’s writing.

Numbers can be a good and sometimes they can not be. They can place limits on things. Example at a certain age we expect to have certain things but what happens when things don’t turn out as we had planned? I get that stress sends an alarm off in our heads to make the proper adjustments still don’t panic. There are so many successful  people who didn’t  have it in their twenties Joyce Meyer ministry  didn’t  really take off until she was  in her forties. What would have happened if she had given up all because she didn’t she any progress at the time? Where would she be? Don’t give up especially when we have a dream and seems as if nothing is happening. Our dreams will happen eventually just don’t stop and don’t get caught up. Take the limits off even the sky is too short. You  never know when things will take off. Keep going! Keep pressing on!

Be Good To Yourself

One of the best way to be good to yourself is caring about the people who surrounds you. I always hear people say that they keep their circle air tight. Loyalty does not come in shapes if you think that they do you are making a mistake. Deal with people who will only lift you higher. Everyone is not meant to be in our lives. It’s important to not try to win over people who wants to see you lose. Have people that celebrate you it’s what you deserve. It’s  what we all deserve.

As A Christian

When a person decides to come to Christ one most keep in mind that we are to be like Christ and that we are not Him. There will be times when we will fall and we will make mistakes. We are not perfect. It’s important to uplift our fellow brothers and sisters. At the same time inspiring others I never want to be the reason why a fellow brother or sister turn away from Christ.

The whole point of me making this blog is to encourage people while discussing various topics that are rarely talked about. On this blog many things will be covered like relationships, marriage, divorce, dating online, social media, TV, music, parenting etc. All these things will be from a Christian point of view and I will also look to the Bible for answers as well. Situations still occurs in everyone one of our lives I just put my faith in Christ and allow Him to lead me. Sometimes it can get hard but I continue to press on. I believe with all that I endured it will inspire many. I am a Christian and I am proud of it.

I am so excited to start my journey as a blogger. Great things will come from this as I pray that many will read it and be lifted as well as encouraged