Like a Sister

We see it on television or social media every day a person who was considered to be a sister who betrayed another in the worse way. Is there any true sisterhood anymore? Are there any loyal sisters today?

It’s all about the respect and the value that people choose to place on things like friendships, relationships, marriages, and yes sisterhood.

I saw a beautiful post and it’s so how I am. The post said ” I am a woman’s woman and a faithful friend. I won’t run off with your man. I won’t hate you because you’re beautiful. I’ll celebrate your success as my own. I’ll keep your secrets and listen to your rants. I choose my friends carefully and if I choose you, I’ll love you like a sister.

I don’t take pleasure in pulling other sisters down. No matter where I am in life through my highs and lows I am never stingy with a compliment. If a sister has lost weight, a new place, new hair-do I will tell her, that I am proud, that she’s beautiful. Never will I undermine a sister’s accomplishment she deserves her props. One thing I don’t do and that’s jock another sister’s style, I am a confident woman I don’t constantly need the spotlight.

This world is already wicked and filled with heartless hateful people. Being negative is easy to do, seeing the best in people can be hard if we focus on the bad things only. There is peace in positivity.

Being mean and fault finding all the time isn’t healthy it’s good to have awareness of the negative people and situations. However, it’s good to enjoy things as well as people that come along.

I choose to believe that there are still good people and that means sisters of every color. Flowers bloom together, they don’t compete because each has their own unique beauty. I’m keeping faith about true sisterhood. It exists.

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Don’t Get Caught Up

Growing up I had a dream of becoming a writer, DJ on the radio or a VJ on MTV. I love music I can not express it enough so my choices should not be a surprise. Well the VJ on MTV will never happen because they don’t play videos like they used to years ago. Then again who knows what God has down the line I’ll find out in time. As long as I live as long as we live anything I do mean anything is possible. One of the great things about technology and the internet it allows you to do things like blogging. So now I am doing a little of something that I enjoy and that’s writing.

Numbers can be a good and sometimes they can not be. They can place limits on things. Example at a certain age we expect to have certain things but what happens when things don’t turn out as we had planned? I get that stress sends an alarm off in our heads to make the proper adjustments still don’t panic. There are so many successful  people who didn’t  have it in their twenties Joyce Meyer ministry  didn’t  really take off until she was  in her forties. What would have happened if she had given up all because she didn’t she any progress at the time? Where would she be? Don’t give up especially when we have a dream and seems as if nothing is happening. Our dreams will happen eventually just don’t stop and don’t get caught up. Take the limits off even the sky is too short. You  never know when things will take off. Keep going! Keep pressing on!