Remember the saying an apple a day keeps the doctor away? Not sure if it’s true or not. I do know that all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. What do you enjoy doing and when was the last time that you did it? If you don’t have anything in mind try finding a hobby. Do something exciting you deserve it. So be like Nike and just do it! Make life more memorable it’s so worth it.
Month: April 2016
Communication
Most problems between people would be saved if only they would communicate. If something is bothering you say it don’t throw hints talk clear the air. It isn’t fair to the person that you have a problem with. You have a mouth use it. Look at it like this when a baby is hungry, sick, upset etc what does it do? It cries so a parent know it needs something. A baby should not communicate better than an adult it’s time to grow up. Great friendships and relationships have been broken up all behind people not communicating and having an ego which aren’t a good combo.
There’s no need to write a thousand words about something that’s so simple. Don’t lose a treasured relationship because you refuse to open your mouth.
The problem could be simple to fix but you will never know if you don’t talk. If you value your friendship or relationship save it. Talk.
Faith
Faith is our muscle
That we must flex
At our worse times not our best
We must use it
To strengthen it
Over the years of life
Tragedies will sometimes come
That may bring tears with fears
But this is when we have
To put our faith into gear
Even in our times of hurt
Our darkest hour
Through our questions
And eyes filled with tears
One thing is clear
God is with us
He’s got us
Just trust
Just trust
Faith is putting our pride aside
And realizing
It’s wise
Pride is not the key to survive
Only faith can do that
So believe
Regardless of what you see
Scratch beneath the surface
Got Faith
Grab it
Don’t allow doubt in
There’s power in our faith
Turning everything over
To God
There’s absolutely nothing
That He can not solve
Privacy
No I’m not tripping
Yes I truly believe
Whether you are in
A relationship or married
Everyone is entitled to a
Certain level of privacy
It’s important to have trust
In the one that you love
A phone doesn’t need to be locked
But at the same time
A phone shouldn’t be
Checked through Facebook,
Texts or voicemail
If your love one phones rings
How about don’t answer it
How about forget it
Unless they ask you to get it
That’s trust
Just like staying off of
Their Facebook page
You can’t get accurate information
From that anyway
Doing all this will drive you crazy
Don’t nobody feel like
Having to explain their every move
Always questioning
Oh and another thing
Go out together
As well as enjoy time alone
Everyone deserves an outlet
So don’t blow up their phone
Allow your partner to
Enjoy their space
If you have to play detective
Then you need to reevaluate
The relationship there maybe
Something or there may not be
If you are one with an issue
With trust then chances are
It’s you
What’s Tameeka Listening To?
Vanessa Mae all that I can say is “Wow”. I have been a huge fan of her for a very long time. Her style is off the charts. Check it out:
And Sometimes
On my journey with God
I have learned
That sometimes God
Helps right away
And sometimes He won’t
Sometimes He will take away pain
And sometimes He will allow
One to go through
Not to hurt you
But to strengthen you
So that the next time
A challenge happens
You will pass the test
Without stress
You will know what to do
Sometimes God want us
To be an inspiration
To somebody
What an honor
Let’s face it
No one wants to listen
To a person who has no idea
Kinda like applying for a job
With no experience
Experience is the best teacher
One can try to relate
But even that can be done
Only but so much
God has a season
For everything with a reason
Though we may not ever realize
Why things are happening at the time
One thing is for certain
God will end the hurting
I have learned this
Yes I have gained experience
Sometimes God helps us out right away
And sometimes He waits
No matter our fate
Or how long it takes
His timing is great
He makes no mistakes
He is with us all the time
For always
Because He is that kind of God
He is simply wonderful
What Will Be Will Be
Everything happens for a reason. The right thing has an appropriate time it won’t be early and it won’t be late. Most beautiful things takes time to happen so just be ready. Things won’t happen no matter how much you try to rush it. It won’t last if it isn’t meant. A baby doesn’t develop over night, fine wine takes time and cheese too. You want the best don’t you?
Being Tameeka
There is so much to who I am. First off I love being me and no I am not perfect I’m Tameeka and that’s okay. I am as unique as the spelling of my name. There are many things that I enjoy doing like being a Christian, wearing wigs, hair pieces, baseball caps, make up, exercising, watching football, drinking, coffee, listening to music the list just goes on. For that I opt out of challenges that takes away from who I am simply because I don’t have to prove who I am according to what people think. You just can’t please people I only want to please God He made me and I want to be the best me that I can possibly be. When I say challenges I mean the going natural challenge no weave no makeup as an example to me most challenges are silly anyway. Look I know how I look without makeup and I know that I have hair people stereotype about others and they have absolutely no clue. Even though I have hair I prefer to wear wigs because they are convenient and I have thin hair. My hair isn’t thinning yet praise God for that but I have thin hair and yes baby I have edges. I enjoy wearing makeup not foundation just lipstick, eyeshadow and eyeliner occasionally. Nothing against any woman who wears foundation, blush or whatever it’s her choice as well as her business. Rock On!
All I want to say to anyone that reads this be you and do what you want as long as it isn’t hurting anyone. In my case I’m going to do whatever I want as long as it’s within the Will of God. Everyday is blessing why ruin it by caring or worrying about what people think of you. I’ve learn and this is so true anyone that says something negative all the time doesn’t have your best interest in mind. Something people enjoy making others feel bad because that’s how they actually feel about themselves. They feel bad. Misery loves company. Hurt people hurt others. So don’t allow anything or anyone to steal your joy. Go to the mirror and give yourself a big hug! Do what makes your heart feel joy. I know that I will! Have a beautiful day you deserve it!
What’s Tameeka Listening To?
As I said I listen to everything that includes R&B feeling this song!! Big Time! 702 Check them out:
The Good Old Days
Ahhhhh the good old days
How I miss them
Spending time with
Family and friends
Playing fun games like
Jacks, Hopscotch, Count 4
And many more
Going in the backyard
Playing horseshoes and volleyball
Playing tag and jump rope
Going to the park
Parents telling you to be home
Before it gets dark
Enjoying great movies
On TV and at the drive in
Dawn of the Dead, Karate Kid,Breakin
What fun we had
Dancing the coolest dances
Snakin, Whoppin and DC Walkin
Oh Yes
And we can not forget about the music
Run DMC, Salt &Pepa, Debbie Gibson
Tiffany, Beastie Boys and 3rd Bass
Boys groups
New Edition, New Kids On the Block
And Menudo
Can’t forget about Rock and Roll
Poison, Europe and Cinderella
I will always love heavy metal
The good old days I love them so
Playing video games
Atari and Nintendo
When all real talented women did
Was rap, sing and dance
With their clothes on
Awesome TV shows
Gimme a break, Facts of Life
A-team and Different Strokes
Do you remember the very
First music video ever
I do it was by the Buggles
When MTV really was
Music Television
Because they played
Music videos all day everyday
It was my dream to be a VJ
Rap City and Yo MTV Raps
Maaaannn these memories
Are taking me way back
Those days will live on forever
In my heart and they will never part
Holding them tight always
Here’s to the good old days
Be Lifted 