They Do Not Expire

Milk has an expiration date, bread has an expiration  date even tough times has a expiration date. One thing that does not expire is a testimony. Every time we talk about a testimony it gives God praise. So we should tell it to as many people as we can anyone who will listen while we are breathing. Treat a testimony like a diamond should it off. That’s what I do and you should too. Testimonies encourages people so repeat it over and over like a scratched LP someone needs to hear it. Don’t worry about people who may be tired of hearing it let they can get some ear plugs or cotton balls. As a matter of fact they can not listen, hey problem solved.  Our blessings comes from God and not man. Don’t get me wrong I don’t praise Him for the blessings. I will praise Him regardless of what I get. Give God His praise and don’t be ashamed do it all day if you want to. We should never hold back not with all that God has done.

Psalm 150:6

Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.

Missing You

Some days are harder than others

Mother’s day, birthdays and holidays

There’s a huge hole in my heart

That nothing can repair

I wish I could see you

Face to face

To let you know

How much that I care

Mom I miss you

And I love you

In though you passed in 1997

It still feels like it was yesterday

I guess it’s best to feel

This way that way

You memories will never fade

And I care carry you

In my heart always

Not Your Cup Of Tea

No matter whatever it is that you choose to do there is always going to be somebody somewhere who wants to behave like an English teacher ready to correct you with their red ballpoint pen. I came into blogging with a thick layer of skin. Writing is something that I have always loved to do. The more that I write the more comfortable that I get. It’s funny when I write I will proofread it several times prior to posting it and somehow I miss an error oh well I will get better.

Really not worry about people who wants to behave like seventh grade students that are dissecting a frog trying to figure out what’s going on inside of me. Everyone will not be a fan of mine and that’s alright by me. It’s like speaking a language that they cannot understand perhaps they’re not meant to. Constantly I keep myself inspired when I think of people like Dr.Seuss and Walt Disney they were rejected too.I think of Donald Trump although I am not a huge fan of his I do respect a person who says what’s on their mind. Trump has a lot of supporters and critics as well. As I have always said if you don’t have people judging you aren’t being true so I guess I’m on the right track. Forget not being someone’s cup of tea that’s too weak I’m not everyone’s cup of coffee because I am too strong. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mother’s Day 2016

What I am going to say may sound weird still you know that I am going to write it anyway. When I think of Mother’s Day Father’s Day comes to mind I know right. I think of all the single mothers who wants to claim both days. To me that’s just being selfish I know some single parent fathers who are excellent truly. I was raised by a single parent for awhile until my step-dad came along. My mom and father separated when I was five it was an ugly separation. Growing up I remember how tough it was for my mother being a single parent. I wanted no part parent of being a single parent sadly that wasn’t the hand that I was dealt. 

Back on topic I see a lot of mothers who celebrate both mother’s and father’s day. Sometimes it bothers me how selfish and self-centered people are becoming these days somehow making things about them. My mother was never that way and neither am I. I too am a single parent is it rough sure it is still I’m not going to make father’s day my day. There are great fathers in the world and some are single parents for various reasons. The fathers are a single parent isn’t trying to celebrate mother’s day.Father’s Day needs to remain for dads and Mother’s Day for moms everything isn’t equal opportunity let’s grow up. We picked the mothers and fathers of our children therefore we share a role in having a bad parent. Unfortunately we sometimes find out how people are until it’s too late still we must allow this to make us better not bitter. I repeat Mother’s Day is for moms and Father’s Day is for dads it’s not Single Parent’s day. Just in cases you missed Single Parent day it’s on March 21st. Being a parent is about selflessness not selfishness Yeah I said it. Let’s recognize things when it’s time. Quit trying to hog the spotlight. It’s okay to be apart of the audience applauding for those who deserve it.

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Give It Your All

Pep Talk it’s time for a pep talk. Congratulations!!! God blessed you to find that special someone who you got into a relationship that lead to marriage. The goal with a marriage is longevity. Once you get married the marriage takes nurturing never get too busy that you can’t. A marriage can not work itself it requires help from both people. The worse thing that can begin to happen is to develop an ego of what you want to do and will not do. Let me tell you get a clue there should be nothing that you would not do for your spouse unless it’s something that’s not of God. Still if God is in it than chance are you are being stubborn and you shouldn’t. A husband is a king and a wife is a queen so they should be treated like royalty. Don’t be ashamed to treat them this way. Do whatever it takes to make your marriage great.

Don’t Suffer In Silence

Addiction is something that goes beyond drugs, alcohol and pornography it can be food, sex and social media. Whatever the problem is the first step is admitting that you have a problem. Denial about a problem only prolongs the situation. When you accept the problem seek help from God and confide in someone that you trust. Please do not suffer in silence.

When you don’t get help that is when the evil one strikes with his lies because he is the father of them. He’ll tell you that you are a hypocrite, that you are worthless, that no one cares about you and that you can’t beat your addiction. The way to beat him is to forget all of his lies and remember the promises that God told you.

God didn’t put us here to suffer. He wants us to thrive. Overcome addiction it not only affects you but everyone that’s around you. Family and friends don’t want to see you hurt. Definitely get healed to help yourself still there are many who truly care some you may have no idea about.

God knew you before you were born there’s nothing that He doesn’t know. And there’s no problem that He can not solve. You can win but you can’t quit. Everyone has a battle they maybe different still a fight is required. Stay prayed up. Stay focused. You can do this.