Month: April 2016

Starting Over

As I have shared I’m starting over in love. I have never dated a guy like go out on several dates. My belief as a Christian woman when a man finds a woman he finds a good thing. That’s what the Bible says and it has not lead me wrong. The internet makes it easy to socialize with others and it also makes it easy for people to get preyed upon. You have to be very careful. There was just a story pertaining to a mother of three being killed by a man that she met online. So sad three children without a mother my heart goes out to them.

First let’s get this understood crazy people are online but you are safe. Crazy people comes in all races, sexes and sizes just wanted to make that clear.You’re not safe when you are offline in the company of a stranger. Not being negative let’s look at things on the bright side everyone in our lives besides family were once strangers. On the other hand you can think that you know a person all of their lives and find out that you really didn’t. In life you take chances but be safe about them. There are people who love us and need us. Let’s try to be here for them as long as we can.

Starting over can be scary especially when it comes to a stubborn person like myself. I absolutely hate change but I have gotten a lot better over the years. I’m open to what way God may send me my Boaz. Patience is a virtue I believe this truly. No crossed fingers just trusting the Lord. Check out these ideas when going out on a date:

What I Have Learned

I decided to start a blog and I have done some audio as well. This is my first time ever doing these things. Just wanted to do something different add some more coolness to my life’s resume while inspiring as many people as I can.With starting anything new you will have people being positive and people being negative. I am not going to say embrace positive words only we have to be open to constructive criticism. The more that we know the more we grow.  Anything different people have to adjust to it but we can’t allow it to let go of what we are passionate about.

We must be selective of how much that we choose to take in. Too much negative words isn’t good either. We may have to resort to treating people who are always negative like static in a radio just straighten the antenna to hear what we need to hear crystal clear.

Blog- a regularly updated website or web page, typically one run by an individual or small group, that is written in an informal or conversational style.

Blogging is something that caught my eye I enjoy writing and sharing my views. How much of anyone’s opinion do I need? I’ll answer the question. It’s none. However  anyone whom I trust truly opinion I value so I will listen. I do want my blog to grow  and it will eventually. What I am going to do is continue what I am doing as well as a whole lot more. I’m proud of my blog and I’m not planning on stopping anytime soon.

Don’t Get Caught Up

Growing up I had a dream of becoming a writer, DJ on the radio or a VJ on MTV. I love music I can not express it enough so my choices should not be a surprise. Well the VJ on MTV will never happen because they don’t play videos like they used to years ago. Then again who knows what God has down the line I’ll find out in time. As long as I live as long as we live anything I do mean anything is possible. One of the great things about technology and the internet it allows you to do things like blogging. So now I am doing a little of something that I enjoy and that’s writing.

Numbers can be a good and sometimes they can not be. They can place limits on things. Example at a certain age we expect to have certain things but what happens when things don’t turn out as we had planned? I get that stress sends an alarm off in our heads to make the proper adjustments still don’t panic. There are so many successful  people who didn’t  have it in their twenties Joyce Meyer ministry  didn’t  really take off until she was  in her forties. What would have happened if she had given up all because she didn’t she any progress at the time? Where would she be? Don’t give up especially when we have a dream and seems as if nothing is happening. Our dreams will happen eventually just don’t stop and don’t get caught up. Take the limits off even the sky is too short. You  never know when things will take off. Keep going! Keep pressing on!

I Love Tulips

What I enjoy the most about spring is not having allergies of course but my favorite flowers tulips. I so be looking forward to seeing tulips bloom. They are so beautiful. Roses are way too overrated. I love the shape of tulips. They come in just about every color purple, red, white and yellow. Unique things I enjoy giving a lady roses is easy. It isn’t about the money.If a man brings me tulips that means that he has taken the time to get to know me. Which is an important thing.

What’s the 411?

It’s said that April showers brings May flowers. April is definitely showering down a lot of blessings. So far it’s  starting off as a great month for my blog Be Lifted. Today on April 11, Be Lifted has a totally of 500 likes and 1000 views. I can’t express it enough I am very proud of how well my blog is doing. Looking forward to what will grow in May today is a terrific day.

What Is Most Important?

Everyone is different so everyone seek different things when it comes to a potential mate. What they seek separates us from who’s right for us and who’s not. I believe that there is somebody for everybody because God made it so. I was watching an interview pertaining to relationships and  people’s choices in a mate. It was quite interesting. To me nobody knows everything but everybody knows something that we can learn from. We just have to be open to learning. Anyway on with the story there was a lady speaking saying that she cares about what a man has to offer financially. She mentioned nothing else accept the man being really tall. I found that to be very disturbing though it shouldn’t have. Most people care about money men and women. My question is what happens when the person can not provide or they get sick. The world is filled with selfish people. Don’t get me wrong I want to live comfortable too. Comfortable for me are my bills being paid, a nice place to live it could be an apartment, townhouse etc it doesn’t have to be a mansion. You get where I’m  coming from and I mean what I am saying. Some people care about looks and that’s fine. It’s just isn’t good to care too much about things that don’t matter very much. They change over time eventually.

For me I want my Boaz to be smart, kind hearted, respectful, loyal a natural born leader someone I can trust. These things are actually pretty hard to find. I’m a leader but a woman is not suppose to lead it’s  a man place. Being a true leader is knowing how to be a great follower. Of course no leader will allow just anyone to lead them. It’s like giving a person a map that they can not read that’s definitely setting yourself up for failure. You’ll be stranded in the middle of nowhere fast. I love Courage the Cowardly Dog but nowhere doesn’t look like a cool place to live. I’m not glutton for punishment. At my age I am realistic, I have sons therefore I don’t expect to find a man my age without children. That’s just a selfish mentality. To be honest I really don’t have everything down to an exact science of what I  am  looking for in my Boaz. Not looking in the first place God has the situation covered already. I do know that I want the love of the old couples who fought for their love. Everyone wants to learn from them a true romance story.

Be Good To Yourself

One of the best way to be good to yourself is caring about the people who surrounds you. I always hear people say that they keep their circle air tight. Loyalty does not come in shapes if you think that they do you are making a mistake. Deal with people who will only lift you higher. Everyone is not meant to be in our lives. It’s important to not try to win over people who wants to see you lose. Have people that celebrate you it’s what you deserve. It’s  what we all deserve.