love

My Promise To You

I can’t tell you

What the future will bring

But I can tell you

This one thing

I love you

And I will always take really good care of you

This is my promise to you

No matter what you do

I mean this from my heart

Honest and true

Like a mama bear

You are my little cubs

I will not go anywhere

This I swear

You and your brother

Are the ones that I am always thinking of

Willing to give you two the

Love that you deserve

Everyday that I live

My love becomes greater

For you and your brother

Are a part of me

When I look into you guys eyes

I see me looking back

I promise to guide you

Through every storm

For every achievement

That is ever born

I will be there to cheer you on

I will always be strong

Never will I ever let you see

A tear that I cry

I don’t ever want you to

Worry or wonder why

You deserve the very best

And nothing less

So that means no stress

God gave you both to me

For that I am blessed truly

With all the joy that you two bring

To my heart

So I will do my part

By making this promise to you

I will always take great care of both of you

I give my word honest and true

Back Up Plan

The back up plan aka the rebound relationship. No one wants to be a victim of a rebound relationship. Love and basketball don’t go together I don’t care about the movie. The only rebound I want to know about is in the basketball game not in love. It makes a person look like a clown and clowns are for kids like Trix cereal. So let’s be an adult about adult situations after a break up feel the pain and reflect on what has happened. If the relationship hurt you let it burn like Usher. Relationships ends for various reasons two people were in it and both people big or small had a hand in the demise of it ending. It’s not cool to bring someone else into your life as a way to ease the pain. It’s okay to be single it doesn’t hurt it gives one a chance to work on oneself. Love is something that can’t be rushed so take it easy.

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It’s so important to analyze the person that you are dealing with especially when the relationship is new. Make sure that they are over their ex there will be warning signs so don’t ignore them. They may talk about their ex all the time even in a negative light however they still are talking about them thus they are not I repeat not over them. Also be careful that you aren’t being used to make their ex jealous that’s also a sign that they still care for their ex. Yes it’s pretty pathetic for them to try to make a person jealous who didn’t care about them in the first place however people still do it. Growing up we’re taught to be a good sport that second place is okay. That being number one doesn’t matter please keep in mind that this doesn’t apply in relationships and marriages. No one deserves to be treated as something to do until the person who didn’t want them in the first place feels like being bothered. If the person valued them in the first place they wouldn’t have let them go. So don’t open yourself up to being hurt.

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Keep this in mind always we deserve the best in our lives. Life is too short to be deprived or playing games with people.

Don’t be the appetizer

Be the main course

Don’t be the minor

Be the major

Don’t be the back up plan

Be the only plan

Because you are first choice

Don’t be someone’s right now love

Be someone’s lifetime love

Our hearts are valuable and fragile

Never allow loneliness or any type of circumstances to drive you into the arms where you don’t belong. The last thing you want is to be with the wrong one and miss out on the right one all because you didn’t want to be alone. Don’t be a rebound it makes you look like a clown and no one likes to be the butt of someone’s joke.

 

Thank You

At times the holidays can deliver mixed emotions for me it’s suppose to be a joyous time but I already know that someone somewhere is going to try to make it lousy. Research is a awesome way to gain knowledge but where did the books that we get our information get it’s information from? It’s just a thought. Why can’t people believe what they want and agree to disagree? For me Christ has brought me through so many times being homeless with my kids, pains in my stomach, raising a child with autism alone, heck raising two children alone, and so many other times. As I have said I’m not here to preach but to let my experiences speak for me. Not trying to be deep I just want to thank Christ for dying for me…..dying for all of us.

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He is risen

He did it for you

He did it for me

So that we all

Could be sin free

Washed cleaned

A new beginning started

When He went to Calvary

Performed the biggest

Miracle and blessing

A wonderful gift to us

We were given

All of our faults

Have been forgiven

He has risen

He is risen

Praise God

Praise God

He Is Risen

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Don’t Judge A Book By It’s Cover

Anything can trigger my thoughts like watching the original Incredible Hulk on Netflix. It got me to thinking David was on a quest to find a cure but along his quest he bumped into people who needed his help. He never turned people down he was a gentle and kind man. Every person whose lives he came into he made it better. The Hulk was gentle too it never seriously injured anyone that includes the bad guys as a matter of fact the Hulk also saved people too. The most damage the Hulk did was to property. Isn’t it something that David and the Hulk actually had a lot of positive things in common. A quest to cure something that is as gentle as himself of course he had no way of knowing it he assumed that the Hulk would hurt someone.Yes the Hulk is green and scary but so is Shrek.

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I Love Blogging

I am so loving my blog. For me it’s the freedom to be who I am and be able to express myself freely. There is so much to me that I would like to share. Like when I started to enjoy writing, where did my love for rock music come, my Christian beliefs, my children, my family and so much more. My goals are to share these things while I inspire and stay as positive as I can. It’s easy to be negative but I choose to take the high road always no matter the situation. I’m ready to explore on my journey of blogging everyday I’m learning more and becoming more confident as well.