Missing You

Some days are harder than others

Mother’s day, birthdays and holidays

There’s a huge hole in my heart

That nothing can repair

I wish I could see you

Face to face

To let you know

How much that I care

Mom I miss you

And I love you

In though you passed in 1997

It still feels like it was yesterday

I guess it’s best to feel

This way that way

You memories will never fade

And I care carry you

In my heart always

The Pleasure and Pain of Sexting

You guys already know that eventually I was going to go there. Here on Be Lifted the things that are thought about are talked about. I keep it positive always. Still  we can’t ignore situations they won’t go away. In my opinion sexting is something that married people can do to keep things interesting. Surprise your spouse with something tasteful and something that you feel comfortable doing. Let’s not act like intimacy is suppose to be boring even God said to be fruitful and multiple. Did He say vegetable? I rest my case.

The pain of sexting is doing it for someone that you are not married to. Definitely would Not advise that at all!!! It will back fire it always does you better think before you press the send button. It takes a lot of trust and know that there are a whole lot people walking around who should Not be trusted. Everyone doesn’t deserve a VIP pass. If there are Not your spouse think it over.

Not Your Cup Of Tea

No matter whatever it is that you choose to do there is always going to be somebody somewhere who wants to behave like an English teacher ready to correct you with their red ballpoint pen. I came into blogging with a thick layer of skin. Writing is something that I have always loved to do. The more that I write the more comfortable that I get. It’s funny when I write I will proofread it several times prior to posting it and somehow I miss an error oh well I will get better.

Really not worry about people who wants to behave like seventh grade students that are dissecting a frog trying to figure out what’s going on inside of me. Everyone will not be a fan of mine and that’s alright by me. It’s like speaking a language that they cannot understand perhaps they’re not meant to. Constantly I keep myself inspired when I think of people like Dr.Seuss and Walt Disney they were rejected too.I think of Donald Trump although I am not a huge fan of his I do respect a person who says what’s on their mind. Trump has a lot of supporters and critics as well. As I have always said if you don’t have people judging you aren’t being true so I guess I’m on the right track. Forget not being someone’s cup of tea that’s too weak I’m not everyone’s cup of coffee because I am too strong. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Proud Of My Old Fashioned Ways

That’s riiiiiight Maury you won’t catch me running off of your stage. It never fails a woman comes on Maury claiming that they are one million percent sure that a certain man is the father of their child. Maury reads the result( You Are Not The Father) and the woman runs. Question ??! Where are they running to? Their face has been on national TV.

Nothing is more disturbing to me than the way people’s minds operates now a days. I wish people would lose the equal opportunity mindset it shouldn’t apply to everything. I am very proud of my old fashioned thinking and would not change a thing. Nothing is more upsetting to me than a woman who has no idea of who the father is of her children are. Sometimes they have to choose between up to ten men. They were being intimate with that many men within a short period of time. The problem is women who feel that they can behave as a man does. Some women needs to stop using certain men as an excuse for carrying themselves like a hefty trash bag that’s a wimpy cop out. Yeah I said it.

Growing up my mother would give us various scenarios of how society was when it came to the standards of women and men. She once said that a woman and a man could make out on the ground in front of people. The man could get up when it’s done and still be looked at as a man unfortunately it doesn’t apply to the woman she’ll be known as every name in the book. That’s just one of the many lessons that I was taught by mother. Let’s not forget about mama’s baby papa’s maybe that saying has been around forever. That’s just the way that it is.

A woman should never have her mind made up that she’s doing her and a child comes out of it. A woman should carry herself like a lady at all times. There should be no competition going on when it comes to acting in a degrading way. Morals should be a thing that’s kept in tack the children are watching. People can joke me all they want call being old fashioned whack but remember some fashion never goes out of style. Believe that!

 

 

Mother’s Day 2016

What I am going to say may sound weird still you know that I am going to write it anyway. When I think of Mother’s Day Father’s Day comes to mind I know right. I think of all the single mothers who wants to claim both days. To me that’s just being selfish I know some single parent fathers who are excellent truly. I was raised by a single parent for awhile until my step-dad came along. My mom and father separated when I was five it was an ugly separation. Growing up I remember how tough it was for my mother being a single parent. I wanted no part parent of being a single parent sadly that wasn’t the hand that I was dealt. 

Back on topic I see a lot of mothers who celebrate both mother’s and father’s day. Sometimes it bothers me how selfish and self-centered people are becoming these days somehow making things about them. My mother was never that way and neither am I. I too am a single parent is it rough sure it is still I’m not going to make father’s day my day. There are great fathers in the world and some are single parents for various reasons. The fathers are a single parent isn’t trying to celebrate mother’s day.Father’s Day needs to remain for dads and Mother’s Day for moms everything isn’t equal opportunity let’s grow up. We picked the mothers and fathers of our children therefore we share a role in having a bad parent. Unfortunately we sometimes find out how people are until it’s too late still we must allow this to make us better not bitter. I repeat Mother’s Day is for moms and Father’s Day is for dads it’s not Single Parent’s day. Just in cases you missed Single Parent day it’s on March 21st. Being a parent is about selflessness not selfishness Yeah I said it. Let’s recognize things when it’s time. Quit trying to hog the spotlight. It’s okay to be apart of the audience applauding for those who deserve it.

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Don’t Suffer In Silence

Addiction is something that goes beyond drugs, alcohol and pornography it can be food, sex and social media. Whatever the problem is the first step is admitting that you have a problem. Denial about a problem only prolongs the situation. When you accept the problem seek help from God and confide in someone that you trust. Please do not suffer in silence.

When you don’t get help that is when the evil one strikes with his lies because he is the father of them. He’ll tell you that you are a hypocrite, that you are worthless, that no one cares about you and that you can’t beat your addiction. The way to beat him is to forget all of his lies and remember the promises that God told you.

God didn’t put us here to suffer. He wants us to thrive. Overcome addiction it not only affects you but everyone that’s around you. Family and friends don’t want to see you hurt. Definitely get healed to help yourself still there are many who truly care some you may have no idea about.

God knew you before you were born there’s nothing that He doesn’t know. And there’s no problem that He can not solve. You can win but you can’t quit. Everyone has a battle they maybe different still a fight is required. Stay prayed up. Stay focused. You can do this.