Celibacy is a very hot topic different people have different opinions on the subject. In my opinion it’s best to wait because we are worth the wait. If a man or woman cannot wait it’s best to let them go they are not worth your time. I will repeat these words several times in order to drive it home. Besides a person who loves you truly will respect you and your wishes.
Ladies there are men out there who are celibate to think that we are alone in the waiting game is not being realistic. With sexually transmitted diseases being at an all time high it’s clear that God’s way is the best way. When we wait it gives us a chance to know for sure if a person is right for us. I don’t know about you but I rather be heartbroken with my standards intact. Love making was invented by God as a way for a husband and wife to bond. Souls are being connected you are special therefore you should not be getting connected to just anyone. Anyone who can laid down with anybody without any thought is a dangerous soul to get with anyway.
Premarital sex has so much confusion and remember God is not of confusion. If you come across a person who says that they can’t wait be like oh you can’t wait to get married? Because I am not having sex until I am married. Stand your ground it’s your body. Making a person wait is your choice and it’s also the person’s choice to accept it if they can’t then they can leave. Think about it you’re good enough to sleep with but not to marry? Look God said that He will give us the desires of our hearts if a person don’t feel that you are worthy let them go. Intimacy is one of the most precious gifts that you can give a person don’t allow them to devalue it, it’s priceless. Don’t allow a person to treat you like you are pawn shop worthy when you are Tiffany jeweler worthy if your price is too high tell them “bye”. Compromising happens during the marriage not when you are in the process of receiving what God has for you. God has the absolute best so don’t settle for less. Treat that person like you would when you get into a car accident you go to a lawyer and not settle. That’s what we must do allow God to handle all of our business.
A true man or woman of God will do things God’s way because they respect it and they want to do what’s right. A person who loves you will not pressure you to go against God’s way. Let’s be honest when was there a time when God’s way did not work? I can’t tell you the number of times when I was happy doing God’s will. Being celibate is hard I think it helps having people in your circle who is celibate too. Another suggestion is when you go out on a date make sure that it’s in public don’t put yourself into a position for an opportunity to present itself. Date a person that’s on the same page as you and that will help to reduce having a slip up. Most importantly keep these five words in mind you are worth the wait.
1 Corinthians 6:18-20
18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.