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The Green Eyed Monster

Exodus 20:17 Thou shalt covet thy neighbour’s house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour’s wife, nor his manservant, nor maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour’s . I just wanted to clarify not that it matters what people think, only what God thinks is what’s important.

There is a poem on my blog called My Love in it I express that I have jealousy for a man who I care about. In my opinion a little jealousy is healthy if not then pray for me, please. To me it’s healthy I don’t have jealousy to the point that it becomes an obsession. I won’t go all Lizzy Borden on a guy but I have a fear of losing a man that I care about.

Quite frankly I feel that too often people hold back and that doesn’t help the relationship falling in love requires being vulnerable and the chances of getting hurt as well. Besides feeling jealousy about a man that I cared about is different I have no jealousy towards or about others. I only want what God has for me which is the best and He will bless us all. There is absolutely no reason to be envious of what another person has I mean come on it’s like driving a car and looking all into someone else’s or expecting to get full from someone else’s plate.

Every human being has their own race to run  we’ll never reach the finish line trying to run a race that is not our own. I refuse to miss out on the blessings that God has for me because I am worried about someone else’s. One thing about God He is a show off God when He stunts He stunts hard. God goes hard in the paint when He bless us not with sprinkles either but a shower!!!!! Therefore I wait on the man of the hour and that God Almighty He’s got me!!!!! God’s has all of our backs.

Right or Wrong

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Speak Out Against Domestic Violence

It’s a television show that I watch that’s called Snapped. The show is about women who kill men. Majority of the time when these women goes to trial they claim that they were victims of domestic abuse. Understand I am no way saying that murder is okay and neither is abuse. The result always end the same every time the women are convicted mostly because when the police interview the couples family and friends no one saw any evidence of violence. Plus it doesn’t help that people have an misconception of what domestic violence looks like actually it’s a obvious thing that’s well kept hidden. Many people who are abused are ashamed to tell anyone what’s going on they always live in constant fear of their lives and their children’s lives as well.

Talking about Oscar winning performance an abuser can put on a show. No one suspects anything at all people on the outside think things are perfect. Not to mention how hard it is for the one who’s being abused hearing the abuser tell them that they are sorry, them buying things and promising to never hurt them again only to do it.

One of my first post is called Stay or Go as I have shared I had an abusive father and so was my ex the father of our sons. We have to educate ourselves on domestic abuse it can happen to anyone believe me I know from experience. It’s important to know what to look for here are a few:

1. The person who is being a abused attitude will completely change they will be unhappy and withdrawn.

2. The person who is being a abused will move far away and distance themselves from others.

3. Their children will be unhappy as well.

There are many more signs still what’s most important is if you suspect that someone ( men are victims too)that care about is being abused keep the line of communication open. If you find proof seek help you could save a life not just the one who is being abused but the abuser too. We must shed a light on domestic violence and the person who is being abused must speak up and speak out.

Can Christians Be Sexy?

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I am very inquisitive I believe there’s no such thing as a dumb question. If you don’t know ask it never hurts. Question: Are Christians allowed to be sexy? Some people think that being sexy is about the clothes that one wears that is just part of it I feel that sexy is being confident and tasteful at the same time. People have different opinions on certain words. For me I feel why not be sexy just don’t go overboard. It’s fine to be sexy for your husband what’s wrong with making sure that you are the apple of his eye. Doing things like staying fit and always looking close to how you did when you two first met. Ask a person that you trust whether or not if what you are wearing is appropriate. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then chances are it isn’t.

There was a picture floating around the internet pertaining to a lady who was standing in church if what she wore was appropriate for church. Now this is not what I  mean also in this situation I believe that she may was just coming to the faith perhaps it was all that she had. It’s never good to judge, a picture may can speak a thousand words but which one of them are true? Unless it comes straight from the horse’s mouth what you think holds no value really. Perhaps the very lovely Marilyn Monroe said it best “Your clothes should be tight enough to show you’re a woman and loose enough to be a lady. Sexy is being confident and classy at the same time. Yes when we decide to become a Christian there are things that we are to no longer do that’s so true that includes our attitudes and choice of clothing too. When the holy spirit is within us he will definitely be our guide.  I think that God doesn’t mind us being proud of the temple that He gave to us. Just not too proud of course.