My, My, My this year sure went by really fast. The year 2017 will be here before we all know it. I have to say that I am pretty content with the way my year went. I’m very thankful for the things that happened and the things that didn’t. I am thankful for the people who came, went and the ones who stayed it was all apart of God’s plan. There have been situations that really have gotten me to think about what took place over the course of my life. I’m taking a new course called Intercultural Competence it’s very interesting so far in the class we had to write about an experience in our lives that impacted us. The life experience that came to mind immediately was being a single parent. I am so thankful for having a relationship with Christ if it wasn’t for Him not sure what my life would be like.
When I think of single parenting I reflect on the way I was raised. I grew up in a single parent home for a short period of time which is sadly the norm in the African American community. I’m used to getting slammed for my views however I don’t care someone has to speak about it. I have numbers to back up what I say African Americans are a minority yet 57.6% of fathers are absent from the home 31.2% of Hispanic fathers are absent from the home and 20.7 white fathers are absent it’s a cold situation. Something has to be done I am not sure exactly I have three sisters and everyone of us are single moms it’s definitely worth thinking about. I care about the children my mother was blessed to have someone special to come along unfortunately not everyone is. I just would like to see a positive outcome not sure how it will happen all I know is God can do anything. I’m stay prayed up it’s all we can do when there is no other solutions in sight. Just looking forward to having a stronger relationship with Christ so I can continue to weather any storm that comes along.
This month I am believing in Christ doing something big, being an incredible mother, lasting relationships, success in my education, being a blessing to others and for God to use me anyway that He can. Lord I’m ready to do Your Will and what You want me to do. I realize it took certain situation to happen to help me to become a better person. Whether we want to believe it or not making us better may mean some not so good things happening. December may be the last month and cold too however one can still look on the bright side new beginnings are on the way.