Our eyes and ears are windows to our souls therefore it’s important to not allow things that don’t help us in. We all have been guilty of caring too much about what others think it’s something that’s hard to master. All is takes is loving ourselves enough not to allow a person negative words to bring us down. For me there is only one person who I care what is thought of me and that’s God as well as my children. I refuse to have anything or anyone to ruin my day. They can go somewhere else with that. Refuse to sweat the small stuff because that what negativity is.